These woman all have a special place in my heart and without them I know my life wouldn't be what it is today. So here's my advice; be there. That's it, just be there. When you see someone hurting, you shouldn't try to figure it out, try to ask how they feel, or get revenge. No, just sit there, pull them into a hug and stand there with them. Be there for them, and never leave. Sometimes the most help you can ever give someone is by listening to them. So be there for the people you love when they fall into the holes of life. 'Cause, wouldn't you want them when the holes swallow you up?
"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares. ~Henri Nouwen "